4. Giving to feel like you exist

Synopsis

The chapter explores the concept of giving within human interactions, beyond the expected reciprocity in exchanges. It highlights that individuals do not give solely for immediate returns or material gains, but often for an abstract "third party" like the community, their profession, or the group to which they belong. This act of giving fosters a sense of belonging and collective existence, thereby creating a form of generalized reciprocity. Exchanges are not limited to personal transactions; they help maintain a flow of interactions within a group, generating a "shared capital." Positive emotions and the pleasure of giving support these exchanges and strengthen social bonds.